PLEASE HELP MY BF …ANXIETY PROBLEM?

If you have really serious anxiety problem, are you afraid of telling your lover about it?
is it because your lover will go away? is it because your lover will be scared of you?

My bf recently told me that he has anxiety problem and he usually goes to see his family doctor.
He also told me that he wondered and worried how i would react…
Since I love him, I told him that I do not mind whether he has anxiety problem or not.
Last week, my bf and I were supposed to meet but he did not show up because he wasn;t feeling well….(because of his anxiety)

So, after that day, we met and I gave him shoulder, neck, face, and back massage. I gane him a big hug and said that "*** you can tell me how I can help because I want to be there for you"

Am I doing well? I am going massage his hands (habd acupressure for his anxiety) would it be excellent for him?

A person with Anxiety disorder is fearful of a bad outcome, so it could be possible he was afraid of your reaction. You are doing the right thing, a massage is very soothing and can calm him down and release tension. A family doctor isn’t going to cut it, he needs to see a therapist and talk about what he is afraid of. I have anxiety disorder myself and I learned how to overcome it.

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