Is there anything the family can do to help ease my nephews fears about college life?
ByMy nephew has lived a sheltered live and now moving into a college dorm and is really nervous. It’s hard to get him to discuss his fears and nervousness about things, but is there anything we can do to help ease his anxiety about things? We suggested that he live at home for the first semester and when he gets more comfortable with things, then move into a dorm. Fortunately, he will room with one of his best friends he grew up with. Any suggestions?
It’s probably safe to say that anyone would be nervous about going to college, just like elementary kids are worried about junior high, junior high kids are worried about high school, etc., etc.
We’ve talked to kids before about the transition from high school to college life; it’s a pretty common anxiety. Sometimes it’s easier for kids to vent their worries to a third party, too, instead of family members or friends. If you’d like, give your nephew our phone number and have him call us. We’re here 24/7. He can reach us through our website, too, or pop in for a chat when we offer live online support: Mon-Thurs 8pm-11pm CST.
Hope that helps!
MKM, Counselor
Boys Town National Hotline
1-800-448-3000
http://www.YourLifeYourVoice.org/








2 Comments
August 30th, 2010 at 2:20 pm
back off and know that he is no different than all other freshmen and will learn and adapt
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August 30th, 2010 at 2:48 pm
It’s probably safe to say that anyone would be nervous about going to college, just like elementary kids are worried about junior high, junior high kids are worried about high school, etc., etc.
We’ve talked to kids before about the transition from high school to college life; it’s a pretty common anxiety. Sometimes it’s easier for kids to vent their worries to a third party, too, instead of family members or friends. If you’d like, give your nephew our phone number and have him call us. We’re here 24/7. He can reach us through our website, too, or pop in for a chat when we offer live online support: Mon-Thurs 8pm-11pm CST.
Hope that helps!
MKM, Counselor
Boys Town National Hotline
1-800-448-3000
http://www.YourLifeYourVoice.org/
References :