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Archive for June, 2010

I rescued Bear on March 26, 2010. He had been in the shelter for 6 weeks. I don’t know much about his history, but, can guess he was abused and neglected. I believe he was just left to fend for himself outside. He was infested with ticks. For the first month I had him, he REFUSED to go outside, I’d get his leash on him and he would immediately panic. I would pick him up and take him out and he would simply sit down and shake uncontrollably. It got to the point where I felt like I was doing more harm than good, so, he began using puppy pads. I was eventually able to gain his trust and convince him that going outside was okay. Now, he loves going out and going for walks. Shortly after accomplishing the huge goal of getting him outside, he began with the extremely destructive behavior. The issue I’m having now is that he has SEVERE SEVERE separation anxiety. He has eaten all of my window sills down the the drywall, eaten drywall, stripped door, window and wall trim off, he has destroyed all my blinds, eaten my couch, pulled the mattress off the bed in an attempt to get at the upstairs window. He destroyed his first crate, by eating the plastic side and opening the wire gate enough to slide through (I still don’t know HOW he got through the spot he did). I got him an ASPCA metal cage, which I reinforced and double locked the latches. He bent the wires and managed to escape through a 3 inch gap. He’s 50 pounds and a medium sized dog… Last weekend, my vet put him on Reconcile. We have been doing the behavior modification training, I have desensitized him to my keys and the door locking as I leave. The day before yesterday, I came home from work and there was very little damage, I felt like "Yay! Finally, SOMETHING’S working" Yesterday, I came home and he had taken the cover off my a/c unit (I live in an apt that has an a/c unit like hotel rooms have) and he had stripped more trim from around the door. I tried bitter spray, it had absolutely no affect on him. He continued to eat the walls and woodwork. Funny thing is, interestingly enough, from the time I adopted him, whenever I’d come home, he was neither anxious, excited or really very concerned that I was home. It seems like his trigger is me leaving on work days. I have been changing up my routine, my habits in the morning on work days, as well as on weekends. I don’t say good bye to him in the mornings or make a big fuss about my departure. I have tried attention diverting toys, bones, etc. However, he has absolutely no interest in toys. He has an entire basket of toys that he has never even attempted to touch. He has very little interest in bones. He is not treat or toy driven. He gets walked 3-4 times a day for 30-45 minutes at a time. I’m running out of options to help him out. I can only imagine how frustrated he must be, because I know how frustrated I am.
Duh! I forgot to mention that he’s possibly 2-3 years old, altered male, Shepherd/Chow possibly Collie mix.
To the person who answered first, as he was infested with over 30 ticks, that sure spells neglect to me, not to mention his coat was knotted up everywhere!! Additionally, he was deathly afraid of people, which to me means he was abused. He is no longer as afraid as he was when around new people. Sorry I didn’t include that information in my question, as I didn’t deem it pertinent, as this question wasn’t about whether or not he was or wasn’t abused or neglected…Thanks for your insight, though.

it’s true that the dog was probably not abused or neglected- beyond someone taking crappy care of his fur and letting him roam loose- he probably does suffer from weak nerves, and definitely had no training. saying he is probably suffering from genetic issues regarding his temperament isn’t an insult to the dog or you, it’s just an observation that the dog may continue to exhibit this behavior to some degree no matter what concessions you make for him.
i’ve known dogs who were genetically rock solid go through the worst abuse and neglect and have no fear or ill will towards people, because of their soundness. the observation that he’s probably genetically predisposed to being nervous has no hinge on you, it’s just something to be aware of, and fairly common in mongrel dogs, because they aren’t bred for sound temperaments.

you need an indestructible crate. i have APBT’s, and used to do a lot of rescue, and the stainless steel crates are good for dogs who can tear apart the normal wire ones.
once a dog figures out he can bust through a crate, he will keep trying, and the only way to calm him and make him stop is to put him in something he can’t get out of.

also, i don’t know if this is feasible, but do you have an outdoor kennel? is it possible for you to "pretend" to leave him in an outdoor kennel and see what he does?
i have a female APBT who will jump through glass windows if i leave her inside when i go to work, but i kennel her outside in a kennel run, she watches me leave, and then goes about the business of destroying her toys and being a dog in the kennel. it has worked very well.
the only thing is that you would need to observe him closely, and have a VERY well built kennel, because if he broke out, there would be trouble.
just a thought, though.

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Jun
30

sex anxiety please help what can i do?

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I am a virgin and i have been going out with my first girlfriend for 5 weeks now and she says she is still a virgin and well she wants to have sex and so do i. Any way i am afraid i might come to quickly and also all of my friends said she is awesome in bed and that makes me have even more anxiety. what can i do so she won’t laugh at me?

Haha good one, House

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30

Kylie’s Album Anxiety

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Kylie Minogue says her eleventh studio album, ‘Aphrodite,’ is the sound of summer. The Aussie pop star reveals that she’s excited and anxious to have people hear her new release. (June 30)

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If you have really serious anxiety problem, are you afraid of telling your lover about it?
is it because your lover will go away? is it because your lover will be scared of you?

My bf recently told me that he has anxiety problem and he usually goes to see his family doctor.
He also told me that he wondered and worried how i would react…
Since I love him, I told him that I do not mind whether he has anxiety problem or not.
Last week, my bf and I were supposed to meet but he did not show up because he wasn;t feeling well….(because of his anxiety)

So, after that day, we met and I gave him shoulder, neck, face, and back massage. I gane him a big hug and said that "*** you can tell me how I can help because I want to be there for you"

However, My bf has anxiety problem…
he takes medicine sometimes or not…
The funnuy thing is that every time we walk on street, he walks so fast….so it is unusual to walk together…
every time we meet, he kept looking at his watch.
when he goes back home late, he get frustrated alot…
before the bus stops, he tries to get off as quickly as he can…
When he gets really hungry, he tries to go back home as soon as quickly
he eats fast

he has done it before we are together…
Are they kind of his anxiety symtoms?
I give him back, shoulder, neck, and leg massages and he loves it!!!

he and I love each other but every time we meet, I feel like we are not dating….cuz he walks so fast and blah blah blah…
I am getting used to it…

give me a solution…

is his behavior kind of his anxiety symptoms?????

everything will be ok ,just take it easy!

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If you have really serious anxiety problem, are you afraid of telling your lover about it?
is it because your lover will go away? is it because your lover will be scared of you?

My bf recently told me that he has anxiety problem and he usually goes to see his family doctor.
He also told me that he wondered and worried how i would react…
Since I love him, I told him that I do not mind whether he has anxiety problem or not.
Last week, my bf and I were supposed to meet but he did not show up because he wasn;t feeling well….(because of his anxiety)

So, after that day, we met and I gave him shoulder, neck, face, and back massage. I gane him a big hug and said that "*** you can tell me how I can help because I want to be there for you"

Am I doing well? I am going massage his hands (habd acupressure for his anxiety) would it be excellent for him?

It sounds like you’re doing alright for him for now. I have a panic disorder, and I know it is very hard dealing with it and relationships at the same time, especially with inadequate care. I cannot count how many relationships it has ruined, actually. The most important thing that I personally need from people close to me (and probably your boyfriend needs this too) is that they don’t pressure me into situations that I feel uncomfortable in, and that they never make me feel inadequate for having the condition. Learning to cope with anxiety is a personal learning/growing experience, and everyone should be entitled to go at their own speed (as long as they are trying).

Although anxiety disorders have their ups and downs, sometimes they just will not go away by themselves, and when that happens and it starts to interfere with your own happiness, it is time to seek better help. If he does this sort of thing frequently, then I recommend that he see more than a family physician. After ruling out other physical conditions that could cause anxiety, I would recommend him to a psychiatrist that he trusts to start therapy, meds, or a combination of both.

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Hi, I am Yashoda, 27 years old and suffering from depression. I am currently taking treatment at Dr. Batra’s which somehow doesnt seem to be working. I am in need of counselling and w

follow this method for one month,you will be alright…the depression may be due wrong foods and planetary bad influences…..
it is due to placement of planets in bad places in the person’s horoscope and also due to hereditary causes..a soul can enter into the womb of a woman whose sins match the sins of previous birth of this soul..this is secret of creation..a soul cant take birth in a wealthy family or pious family,if it has got previous sins..
.when your forefathers have these diseases you will get them…sometimes due to sins of your forefathers and foremothers ,diseases are caused…when there are such sins ,your horoscope will contain placement of good planets in bad places…diseases may develop in a person due to sins of that particular individual…sins means viiolation of natural law…eating fast foods,nonveg,sweets etc come under this category…evil thinking and evil doing come under the category of serious sins..
such sins and doshas in horoscopes can be repaired or modified by doing tapas or penance…

it is due to eating wrong and negative foods and negative style of life… follow this method for two month…you will improve from 15th day…
holistic healing method..
when the body is having a disease, the patient should not be given a nutritious food… he should be asked to fast for 7 or 10 day… but he can take unlimited fruits(not sweet) and uncooked vegetables… this is also called semi-fasting method…during semi-fasting, the bodies energies will be conserved to fight and throw out the disease…that is why , patients are asked to stop so many negative foods …all high nutritious foods are negative foods for sick people…

sages consider water and uncooked vegetables as gods…by taking daily ,2 or three coldwater headbaths, you will be incresing your disease… yes, you are correct… by increasing or aggravating the disease, we can throw out the disease…
a person requires so much culture and intelligence, to understand the basic principles of holistic healing … this is part of yoga and spirituality…this is great indian science…
i am telling you about indian thinking, which the new generation has forgotten or is ignorant of culture…though this is called hindu thinking , these methods are prevalent in china,egypt japan,and east asia…
that is why , i am doing this service to sick people in yahoo and otherwise, to awaken people of their slumber…this is great Hindu method,which does not require any expenditure to cure any type of disease…write me.. kumrao99@yahoo.co.in

Holistic healing method….

1avoid milk ,curd,buttermilk,coffee,tea,horlicks,,
sweets,sweet fruits,
,nonveg,cashewnuts,almonds,peas,cooldr…
fish,eggs,f,alcohols for 30days.these are all
negative foods for a person with disease…unless these
foods are stopped ,he or she cant clean the body,blood
and nerves…persons without disease can take them…
2.daily eat 300 gms of uncooked cucumber( or 60 gms of uncooked bittergourd or 300 gms of blackgrapes containing seeds.)
3.daily have two headbaths with cold water .it contains magnetism(divinity).
4daily eat 20 gms of ginger uncooked..
5.daily eat 30 uncooked leaves of ponna ganti aku-telugu(ponnan kanni keera-tamil) and 20 uncooked leaves of coriander..
and 3 betel leaves..(after one week take 6 betel leaves)
6.you can eat rice items,wheat items ,ragi balls,jowar items of food..dont take ragi malt.
7,you can take daily oranges,promagenates,watermelons,pineapp…
good wishes,
k.umamaheswara rao

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If you have really serious anxiety problem, are you afraid of telling your lover about it?
is it because your lover will go away? is it because your lover will be scared of you?

My bf recently told me that he has anxiety problem and he usually goes to see his family doctor.
He also told me that he wondered and worried how i would react…
Since I love him, I told him that I do not mind whether he has anxiety problem or not.
Last week, my bf and I were supposed to meet but he did not show up because he wasn;t feeling well….(because of his anxiety)

So, after that day, we met and I gave him shoulder, neck, face, and back massage. I gane him a big hug and said that "*** you can tell me how I can help because I want to be there for you"

Am I doing well? I am going massage his hands (habd acupressure for his anxiety) would it be excellent for him?

YES!

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30

PLEASE HELP MY BF …ANXIETY PROBLEM?

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If you have really serious anxiety problem, are you afraid of telling your lover about it?
is it because your lover will go away? is it because your lover will be scared of you?

My bf recently told me that he has anxiety problem and he usually goes to see his family doctor.
He also told me that he wondered and worried how i would react…
Since I love him, I told him that I do not mind whether he has anxiety problem or not.
Last week, my bf and I were supposed to meet but he did not show up because he wasn;t feeling well….(because of his anxiety)

So, after that day, we met and I gave him shoulder, neck, face, and back massage. I gane him a big hug and said that "*** you can tell me how I can help because I want to be there for you"

Am I doing well? I am going massage his hands (habd acupressure for his anxiety) would it be excellent for him?

A person with Anxiety disorder is fearful of a bad outcome, so it could be possible he was afraid of your reaction. You are doing the right thing, a massage is very soothing and can calm him down and release tension. A family doctor isn’t going to cut it, he needs to see a therapist and talk about what he is afraid of. I have anxiety disorder myself and I learned how to overcome it.

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I’ve been having the worst and strangest dreams lately and my mom says it’s anxiety, what can I do to help it?

Here are some basic tips you can adjust in your everyday life that contribute to your anxiety.

* Progressive muscle relaxation. When anxiety takes hold, progressive muscle relaxation can help you release muscle tension and take a “time out” from your worries. The technique involves systematically tensing and then releasing different muscle groups in your body. As your body relaxes, your mind will follow.
* Deep breathing. When you’re anxious, you breathe faster. This hyperventilation causes symptoms such as dizziness, breathlessness, lightheadedness, and tingly hands and feet. These physical symptoms are frightening, leading to further anxiety and panic. But by breathing deeply from the diaphragm, you can reverse these symptoms and calm yourself down.
* Meditation. Many types of meditation have been shown to reduce anxiety. Mindfulness meditation, in particular, shows promise for anxiety relief. Research shows that mindfulness meditation can actually change your brain. With regular practice, meditation boosts activity on the left side of the prefrontal cortex, the area of the brain responsible for feelings of serenity and joy.
*Reach out for support-The more connected you are to other people, the less vulnerable you’ll feel. If you start to feel overwhelmed with worry, call a trusted family member or friend. Just talking out loud about your worries can make them seem less threatening.
*Adopt healthy eating habits-Going too long without eating leads to low blood sugar, which can make you feel anxious and irritable. Eat plenty of complex carbohydrates such as whole grains, fruits, and vegetables. Not only do complex carbs stabilize blood sugar, they also boost serotonin, a neurotransmitter with calming effects.
*Limit caffeine and sugar-Caffeine can increase anxiety, interfere with sleep, and even provoke panic attacks.
*Exercise regularly-Exercise is a natural and effective anti-anxiety treatment. For maximum anxiety relief, try to get at least 30 minutes of aerobic activity on most days.
*Avoid alcohol and nicotine
*Get enough sleep-Anxiety and worry can cause insomnia, as anyone whose racing thoughts have kept them up at night can attest. But lack of sleep can also contribute to anxiety. When you’re sleep deprived, your ability to handle stress is compromised.

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I would recommend exercise since it release endorphins to help with your symptoms. Believe me, it really worked for me and I feel so much better after running to let everything out. If this is not for you, I would recommend a good therapist in your area. Good luck and take care.

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