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Ok well i think i might have anxiety disorder and the reason i think this, is because when i am amongst a large group of people, i start to feel overwhelmed and sweaty. I feel like that all the eyes are looking at me, and i get really nervous and i start to wish i could get out of the room. Also i find it hard talking to some people. Some of the time i am fine with people and other times i feel like they are judging me, and because i get so nervous when talking to strangers my lips start to tremble. This is really embarrasing that i have this problem and i really want help for it, but how do i get help!!??
this also even affects me trying to find work, because i avoid looking for work such as bar staff or restaurant work.
maybe. go to your doctor. my brother has anxiety and what you said exactly matches what he has.
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ok so let me get started. I was feeling great a long time ago (1 year and 4 months ago). then i met this girl we had sex(protected) but I got scared coz I didnt know her that well. 2 times protected. so since then I’ve had sex with other girls as well (always protected oral and vaginal, no anal). I’ve been tested for STDs 5 times so far, always negative even after 8 months from last exposure so I think I’m STD free.this isnt my concern. during that time I developed mild anxiety from the fear. I’ve never taken pills for that. I kinda got over it once, I was working out and stuff at the gym, had a great summer in between and traveled a lot. so now came back to school. I party with my friends, have a beer from time to time. last weekend we drank a lot. I got drunk with whiskey and was totally drunk. i had to go to the doc. that passed. it has been like 5 days now I’m suffering from panic attacks and anxiety. my back hurts, my neck muscles feel tender. my chest hurts. and i feel itchy especially my palms. they r clean and they sting from time to time. can someone tell me any way I can get over this bad feeling and mood swings and is this all from anxiety or I have skin problem
I have some new tiny/small moles here and there
I’m looking for a kind answer and anything from someone that is an advisor specialist or has had to deal with this before.
p.s. i’m male 20 yo and 120lbs. got drunk with around 6 shots of whiskey on an empty stomach. puked after that.
Our body is an amazing machine and the network of nerves and sensory receptors in the body transmit all the information as it is received. Our brain will transmit warnings through a complex cerebral cortex causing the decision process to kick into life.
This in turn lets the good old brain know whether the actual problem is real or just your imagination playing havoc with you. If the correct buttons are hit, you will find that chemicals are released into the body and physical changes are the result. These can be as subtle as slight perspiration on the palms of the hand through to full on increased heart rate, restriction of breathing and possibly even fainting.
Consciously force your mind to say to itself that there is no threat and that it is ok to relax.Keep repeating this to yourself over and over in your mind and within a couple of minutes the seeds are planted within the subconscious. Once the seed is planted, it will work wonders. You are now running on auto pilot. For the subconscious is ultimately the part of the mind that keeps you alive every day.
Look at your environment, diet, health and lifestyle. In today’s hustle and bustle of modern living, a lot of the sources and causes of anxiety attacks can be attributed to the way we live.
Banish those bad influences from your life that may be adding to your stress. If you feel like you can’t get over your stress, it probably means you have an underlying issue or stressor that is causing you distress. Choose in your mind a path to deal with this, or choose to ignore it. In most cases dealing with the problem and working it out in your mind helps immensely.
Getting regular exercise may reduce anxiety because it increases serotonin production, which can promote better feelings and a sense of calm. Some people who have anxiety exercise on a regular basis and find that if they are really stressed it helps to exercise immediately to reduce stress.Take care of yourself as always!
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When things startle me or sometimes when nothing is going on at all I seem to have a flash image of the worst possible outcome. This includes seeing myself getting in car accidents when my husband breaks a little later than I would like. I was driving the other night and I was having a hard time keeping the car in my lane because I couldn’t help but look at the on coming lights. I am working on getting my license. Anyway I freaked out because I couldn’t stop veering towards them. Then like when I am a passenger I saw myself clipping a car in the other lane and I could hear my husband coaching me through the accident. I began hyperventilating and then as I pulled off the side of the road I began to cry. I don’t know why this happens. Like I said it happens in other cases too, this is just the worst panic attack I have had in years.
Please does anyone have advice how I can overcome these images?
At the first sign of one, employ an ANTI PANIC ATTACK breathing technique. Advice from a clinical psychologist is to breathe in to the count of 3: (one thousand one; one thousand two; one thousand three) each takes around a second to say to yourself, in your mind, and out to the count of 3. Keep repeating this until the panic subsides, which will deal with the hyperventilation aspect. Read: "Power Over Panic", by Bronwyn Fox, from your bookstore, or enter "panic attacks" in the searchbar at Amazon.com for more media. View http://deeplyrelax.com & www.deepsloweasy.com/html/intro.htm Note: the controlled breathing only helps with the symptoms, as do medications/herbal remedies. Address the underlying cause, which requires some form of therapy; see your-mental-health.8m.com, below, re anxiety, on pages 1, h, & i. Page h shows the difference between panic, and anxiety attacks.
Imagine that the cause of your panic; your anxieties, fears, your self doubts, self recriminations, all the agonizing "I’m-so-Stupids"; every painful "I-can’t-do-it" are huge raging, hurtful bulls snorting and charging at you. You see them coming at you and you hold out your red matador’s cape at arms length and simply let them charge right by. Every time they come at you, hold out your arm with the red cape and let them rage and snort and go right on past. Some people recommend nettle tea, with a little honey. Others use Lavender tea, Lemon Balm, Chamomile, but use no milk or cream with herbal teas, or Valerian (caution: use it for 3 weeks at most!). Know how these affect you before driving, or doing anything dangerous, and it is far better to use the treatments, rather than relying on herbal remedies. Free online PANIC COURSE - www.panic-attacks.co.uk also available by email. See the section on panic attacks at www.mind.org.uk also Ebooklet form. They recommend letting a panic attack run its course, without doing anything to treat it, so you KNOW you will survive it. The usual maximum is 30 minutes, until symptoms begin to subside. Also see www.anxietypanic.com/signs.html
and http://www.onestepatatime.com (chatroom, and one free email is allowed to their resident expert on joining [free] - more if a paid up member) and
www.medicinenet.com/panic_disorder/artic… and www.squidoo.com/controlpanicattack/modul… and http://www.anxietynetwork.com Practice a relaxation method, daily, and when needed, such as http://www.drcoxconsulting.com/managing-stress.html or http://altmedicine.about.com/cs/mindbody/a/Meditation.htm or http://www.wikihow.com/Meditate or Yoga Nidra, (a series of easy mental exercises only; no flexibility required) at http://your-mental-health.8m.com/blank_11.html Hypnosis is merely a heightened state of suggestibility, in which you are better able to communicate with your subconscious mind. 85% of people are suggestible, to some degree, so you could either seek professional hypnotherapy, or more alternatives along such lines are on page 1, at 8m.com, about panic, & stopping negative thoughts. It’s important to regularly monitor, and deal with a negative internal monologue (self talk), or mental process, such as disturbing thoughts, images, impulses, or emotions, by the process of (a): recognising it, and (b): challenging it immediately. Technique For Re-Programming Negative Thoughts: When you notice something negative, such as: "I can’t do this/ am never going to get over this!" or: "Why am I always so useless/such a loser?" or even an image, emotion, or a memory; recognise that it is being generated from the negative part of your mind.
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i am 20 this year and i had been sharing the room with my sister for almost my whole life till last year we move house again and we each have our own room n i cnnt sleep alone and that i realise i have separation anxiety.on top of that,my sister is leaving me soon for overseas studies.i am so worried cuz i felt she had gain independance as we used to be depending on each other but yet i had not been able to rely on myself without her with me.i was on v close terms with her eversince i had depression in 2003 and depended a lot on her as if she was my soul mate until in 2009 that we move house n i do not like the new house so i move back to our gran house and i had isonmia but i thought its becuz of the house till recently i remember a similar episode that i was v nervous n angry with her for not being with me some years back and i cnnt sleep or feel at peace without her yet i also haf a case of difficulty adapting to new environment and i am worried abt that too yet i need to go with her for further studies to be with her and stop the anxiety for my present life.i am in a contradicting position for myself.anyone can give me some logical and feasible advice to deal with it?
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Ok so I am diagnosed with anxiety to begin with. I think I have many problems!! I feel so messed up! I went through councelling for almost a year and my councelor said I am absolutly normal, and I only have anxiety. I feel so weird lately. I know that ever since I was little I would take everything to heart. If any one yelled at me I would cry, even at work, and I hate people one minue, if they do something to me or say something. I always take things the wrong way/ Even if things are a compliment, I thinkk in my mind t really isn;t a compliment. I am not dellusional however, likke I do not think people are out to get me..!! so then if I get upset about something, I cry and get really hissy, grumpy and become a huge bitch! If I like someone then I love them.. like it is always one extreme or the other! but I can change form hating that person who said something rude to me.. to loving that same person because they apologized. ALso I am 18, female. I was wondering are all bipolar people permiscuos like do they all have unprotected sex? Because I ma still a virgin, however I do masturbate to get the urges out. I even fantasize… Am I messed up? Please only serious ansers I am actually really scared!!!!
Going from love to hate and having no in between is not a sign of bipolar disorder. It might be a sign of borderline personality disorder, but you’re only 18, so you’re a bit too young for that diagnosis. Have you talked to your therapist about the extremes in personal relationships that you have?
Anxiety can make a person irritable, cry easily and become "hissy, grumpy and a huge ****".
As for the sexuality question. Masturbation and fantasy is normal. No, not everyone with bipolar disorder is promiscuous or overly sexual and no not even those who are promiscuous are running around having unprotected sex, they may be using condoms and other birth control!
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I quit smoking weed about five months ago. I smoked weed during 11th grade (only on weekends) and in 12th grade (a little bit almost everyday, VERY strong stuff). And everytime i smoked, i enjoyed it; but at the same time HATED it. I would get panicky, a fast heart beat, scared to talk to girls, and over all depression. All feelings that the normal me would never have. Before this i loved getting with girls, talking to people, helping people, i was a great guy and i can definitly say that all those traits are starting to come back to me and im starting to feel more like myself and looking at the past two years as some sort of test i went through in life and now that Ive been through hell i feel almost impervious to shit! But im not quite there yet. About five months ago the depression and shit slowly started to fade and my mind and body has been acting strange. I have derealization but im dealing with it, i just want it to go away. I constantly feel like im sort of high, everythings hazy and seems… weird. Maybe ‘high’ isnt the right word. Almost like somethings wrong with my eyes. My heartbeat pounds kind of hard and makes me uncomfortable at time, i dont even go to the gym anymore on account of it starts to get uncomfortably fast (not super fuckin fast or anything, just it doesnt feel right). If i can kick the derealization and get rid of this weird heartbeat (which i believe is caused by anxiety which im working on to get rid of) i believe i can go back to living my life again and not this weird shit. Im almost there, if anyone has any tips or advice on how to deal with this stuff, PLEASE tell me anything positive or helpful is great, i hope to one day look back and this and be like "shit, that sucked…watever its done". dont waste your time saying go to a doctor, im gonna go in a couple days and have him check some stuff out, i wouldve five months ago but ive been abroad and dont have healthcare here. Thanks for reading this fuckin essay i wrote haha, take care!
Honestly there’s only one real way to overcome the symptoms of anxiety, and unfortunately that’s to just accept them.
Yeah, they can be so damn frightening, you feel sure you’re gonna die or go nuts, but fact is, you just won’t.
It’s not possible.
None of it can hurt you, keep that in mind. I find when I start freaking out that if I just accept whatever combination of symptoms it’s given me for that time, it goes away much faster.
Try not to break your routine. If you’re used to working out, keep on doing it. Chances are the weird heartbeat sensation is amplified in your mind because you’re focussing on it so much.
If it’s a still too difficult, I’d speak to your doctor about anti anxiety meds. They won’t magic everything away but they could help you on your way to accepting your symptoms by calming you a little.
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i’m a hypochondriac, i worry about every single problem i have.
i have this pulsing/throbbing/flushing type of pain in my leg it also aches! WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? IS IT A BLOOD CLOT? =(
i have really BAD anxiety about having any disease…im really tired of feeling this way its getting the best of me…i try to fight it. i try not to think about any disease or pains. but once i think about it i feel bad and have pains and aches on my body i worry about it! i pray every night that it i can get rid of being this way! i need help please
I have similar issues. The best thing to do first is go see a psychologist. They can really help and there are tons of anti anxiety medications out there and different treatment options. The fear and anxiety will not disappear overnight. It will take some time. If you have severe physical issues you should always go to the hospital but if you think it is probably just your fears just see a psychologist. They can help. I take Seroquel and Buspar for my anxiety and nervousness issues.
Hope this helps.
Cheers
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Ive been feeling axious for over ten years. it used to always happen when i was in a place i didnt want to be or around alot of people, but as soon as i felt safe like in the car, at home, with family, it went away and i felt fine. i recently quit drinking 30 days ago, i abused alcohol for several year, i think because of my anxiety, and ever since i quit i feel like i have anxiety/panic no matter where i am. it wont go away. i went to a psychiatrist and he put me on celexa/buspar/trazadone. i took one 40mg celexa and the buspar and had horrific side effects. that was a week ago, and the anxiety has worsed since then too. i just feel panicky, i feel like i’m having trouble breathing and i know i’m not(this is the worst), weak, no appetite, and my vision seems off.(been to the ER like 4 times and they said i’m healthy) anyone have any advice? anyone experience this before? i just feel like there is no hope and i’m just looking for people who know what i’m going through and can help. i take xanax and it helps just a little(some days). some days are ok, some days are horrible, no good days anymore. is it possible to ever feel normal? thanks to anyone who responds with good advice or experience.
I cannot advise you on medication. But a technique that you can and should explore is slow deep breathing. This simple technique is very effective. You can practice it regularly every day and also when you feel the panic attack coming on or your anxiety rising. I do not suffer from panic but I do tend to get anxious quicker than others around me. I have used this slow deep breathing technique effectively in such situations many times and still do.
What you should do when you become conscious of rising anxiety is take 2-3 deep breaths and then start breathing slowly. Initially focus on slow exhalation. You will find your inhalation slowing down too. However, do not strain too much to breathe deeply. Try to reduce your breath to less than 10 per minute. You can do this as a daily regular practice for 5 minutes daily. As you practice you will find it easier to get into this state.
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I’m not like talking about roller coasters or presentation nervous- type.
I mean like when you are afraid to go to a guys house you like or maybe you’ve done something that isn’t necessarily bad, you just feel sick with guilt.
I’m fine in the moment it’s happening. But before it, I get really hot, constant nausea, loss of appetite( I haven’t eaten a proper meal in 4 days) , lack of sleep, Shake and butterflies. I have thrown up before because of it, and I know it shouldn’t effect me but it does. And I have no idea why, I have truer to change the way my mind looks at things but my nerves get me. I feel uncomfortable constantly. Any advice? I’m not gonna be able to see a doctor in time, so is there any video hypnosis thing that calms you down? Or maybe something I can keep telling myself?
I have already tried breathing. But I have asthma and I start tearing up because I can’t breathe properly haha. Please help me
thanks in advance x
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The last few days, I get an overwhelming feeling that I am frieghtened of my mind and thinking. This panicks me cause I feel like How can I live if I dont like feeling in my head?
i suggest you call your psychiatrist or therapist and see if you can book an appointment asap.
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